I know that I haven't posted in a while, no particular reason. I'm still not sure about this blogging thing. I think it is great that I can easily share what's going on in my life with friends around the world. If I actually kept this thing up to date, all of my friends and family could know what I did and how I felt every hour of the day without ever having to see me, or talk to me, or leave the comfort of their own home. Then again so could complete strangers...and eventually that is what my friends and family would become.
What has happened to personal relationships in the age of computers? Why am I more inclined to send an email to someone than actually talk to them? Sure it is quicker and easier, but when that's the only form of communication that you use relationships become impersonal. A person's passions and fears turn into just words on a page instead of a sparkle in their eye or a crack in their voice.
I just went on a retreat with my Sunday school class and we were encouraged to be more open with each other as a means to build a good self image. I have been trying to be more open with people over this past year, but I don't think this blogging counts. Yes, I share my thoughts and feelings about certain select things, but am I really fully vulnerable here? You can't see the look on my face as a type about these things. You can't hear the tone in my voice. It is masked.
I have found that one of the best things about strong personal relationships is that you don't really have to tell people what you are thinking. They will know by the lines on your face when you are hurt. They will know by the shape of your eyes when you are scared. They will know by the pitch of you voice when you are excited. You don't have to tell them. They know you.
I think I'm safe to blog for now. Just as long as I don't substitute this for real relationships with real people.
2 comments:
What a powerful piece Jon. But never forget that the medium of words, the ability to string together letters in a beautiful form can be just as life changing. I expect more posts like this from the blog of so vibrant a mind as yours:)
I concur with Nathan's comment. But I also think you're right when you say that a blog cannot replace true face-to-face relationships. But in the meantime it's great just to put your thoughts out there.
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